The Invisible Rules Running Your Life
(and how to break one)
A LIVE, STRATEGIC UNRULINESS ZOOM EVENT YOU WON’T WANT TO MISS!
There’s a moment — brief, familiar —
when you hold back before you speak.
You edit.
You wait.
You choose the version that will land.
The real thing doesn’t get said.
Not because it isn’t true.
But because it feels like too much.
It doesn’t feel like playing small.
It feels like being thoughtful.
Being strategic.
Being aware.
And still — in that moment —
you make yourself smaller.
That move doesn’t just happen when you speak.
It shows up in what you ask for.
In how long you wait.
In which opportunities you pursue — and which ones you quietly dismiss.
Those moments don’t look dramatic.
They look reasonable.
But over time, they add up.
Not to failure.
To a life that’s smaller than your actual capacity —
even when things are going well.
That’s the cost of the rules we learned
about what’s appropriate, allowed, or realistic.
They don’t stop you from succeeding.
They decide how much of you gets expressed.
And how much never does.
The Shift
The work is to stop holding back-
by seeing the rule that tells you when to do it,
and decide whether you still want it running your life.
Once a rule is visible,
you’re no longer required to follow it.
Choice becomes possible.
What Happens in the Room
In this free 60-minute live Zoom session, we won’t talk about this in theory.
We’ll work with it — in real time.
Together, we’ll:
notice a rule as it shows up in a real decision you’re facing
practice challenging it without forcing or overriding yourself
choose — consciously — whether it still gets to lead
feel what it’s like to move forward with more range and authority
This is not about fixing yourself.
And it’s not about motivation.
It’s about practicing choice —
in the moments that actually shape your life.
Why This Matters Now
Rules you didn’t choose don’t just influence moments.
They shape trajectories.
They determine:
which opportunities feel “for you”
which risks feel off-limits
which desires get negotiated down before they’re ever spoken
This session is about making those rules visible —
and practicing how to break them in real time,
so you get to decide what actually leads next.
Event Details
🗓 Wednesday, February 18
⏰ 5:00–6:00 pm Eastern
4:00–5:00 pm Central
2:00–3:00 pm Pacific
📍 Live on Zoom
Step into the room — and practice choosing.