Strategic Unruliness: When the Rules No Longer Fit

a live zoom experience for women who can feel the shift-
even if nothing looks wrong

Thursday, January 29th
12:00- 1:15 PM ET
Live on Zoom

SAVE MY SEAT

You followed the rules.
Built the résumé.
Checked every box.

And still — something feels off.
Even though your life looks right.

You’re still showing up.
Still delivering.
Still being the one others rely on.

But underneath it all, there’s a quiet tension you haven’t been able to name.

Not burnout.
Not boredom.
Not a lack of gratitude.

Something else.

A sense that the version of you that works so well on paper no longer reflects the full truth of who you are.
That staying aligned now requires more effort than it used to.
That you’re managing yourself inside rules that once helped — and are now quietly constraining you.

You’re not broken.
You’re not ungrateful.
And you’re not asking for too much.

You’re waking up.

This live Zoom experience is a space to recognize what’s actually happening — without fixing yourself, blowing up your life, or pretending you already know what’s next.

We’ll explore:

  • how invisible rules shape how you lead, speak, and decide — often without your consent

  • why capable women misread misalignment as personal failure

  • the hidden cost of obedience to clarity, voice, and edge

  • what it means when success starts to feel like performance instead of power

You’ll leave with:

  • language for the ache you’ve been carrying

  • clarity about the rule that’s costing you the most

  • and a more honest orientation to what this moment is asking of you

This is not a space where you learn how to break the rules.

It’s the space where you finally see which rules were never yours — and why continuing to follow them is no longer neutral.

If something in you tightens reading this —
if you’ve ever wondered why a life that looks so good still feels misaligned —
this conversation will feel familiar.

And unfinished.

Because Strategic Unruliness is not a concept you think your way into.

It’s a way of being you have to live.

That work happens live.

If you’re feeling this, the next step is simple - step into the room:

Thursday, January 29
12:00–1:15 PM ET
Live on Zoom

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